CLAIMING MY POWER

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Some people were born with and kept this innate ability to communicate that which they require of other people, or from life.  They take situations head on, they take the bull by the horn and they speak their mind.  They demand to receive those things which they believe is theirs.  I ADMIRE these people.  They fear nothing.  They are ok with people not liking them, or disagreeing with them, frankly they don’t give a f*(&.  I would love to be able to say that is me.  But it’s just not true.  While I know how strong I truly am.  I have spent my lifetime trying to stay away from confrontation, trying to make people feel comfortable, only wanting every one else to feel happy, comfortable and secure.  Biting my tongue, holding myself down from moments where I felt strongly about something in order to let someone else feel good about themselves or a situation they are in.  I have to say I think it’s a quality I need to say GOODBYE to.  It is time for me to honor that fearless individual inside of me.  The rebel inside of me that has no problem making people feel uncomfortable.  That person inside of me that loves to be in a unknown place.  To speak the needs and boundaries I have with no fear of the consequences. TO LIVE  from that place where I honor the highest good for me, trusting that in the end that which truly serves my highest good serves everyone much more than it does for me to sit on the side line of my life.  Even if it feels extremely uncomfortable for me…I must in order to shift my life…dig into the meat of my life.  Say what I want, what I need, what I believe, stand up for the movements I believe in, make enemies, make even better friendships, love my family, and love my spirit.

What do I think that requires of me?

Courage to ASK for the things I need, to SPEAK the things I see on my path, and to CLAIM that which calls me deep in my heart.

Trust that by honoring myself I honor everyone on this planet…even if it feels uncomfortable to speak up and/or ask for what I see necessary in any given situation. Even if I am afraid that I might be wrong.

Action Just Do It. Every day. One small action. One honest conversation leads me to another.  One question asked leads to one more answer.

Knowing/Faith That the growth is a never ending process, but that at every step along the way their are great rewards.  In fact, that at every leap of faith the whole planet’s energy is shifted in some small way.

What does claiming your power mean to you?  I’d love to hear your thoughts and continue on with this conversation.

“The man who trims himself to suit everybody
will soon whittle himself away.”
~Charles Schwab~

“Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”
~Lao-Tzu~

“Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair,
but manifestations of strength and resolutions.”
~Kahlil Gibran~

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